Women can do some dirty things such as leading a guy on. While that may be cool with a random dude, you should never lead on your boyfriend
None cares about random dudes...
As a guy, I can say that I could care less about a random guy if I were single. I am sure women feel the same about men. It’s understandable not to care about someone initially because all is fresh. As time goes on, if he becomes your boyfriend you must remember… never stall, drag, or lead on your boyfriend when you don’t want him.
Reasons not to waste his time
1. She sees a future with you
Firstly, if you have been in a relationship for a while with a guy and they’re talking futuristic, they see a future with you. If you don’t see a future with them you may want to cut them loose and quit stalling.
People do crazy shit when they fill fucked over so be mindful of that. Especially if they invested time, they may want it all back in the worst way.
Imagine she or he was a side chick and they found out later on. They may show up and start trying to ruin a somewhat happy home.
2. He's falling in love
The next reason not to stall your “BOYFRIENDS” time is that he’s starting to fall in love and you don’t feel the same. Now I’m not trying to say get rid of him, people fall in love at their own pace. If you feel there’s a chance it may grow into that then this is cool so stall if you must.
If you feel he moving too fast because you have alternative motives then you may want to let it go.
3. He is telling her friends about you
When people are excited about things they like they become a promoter of the object. In this case “YOU” are that object she’s bragging about to her friends so they can cause some issues. She may really like you but sometimes people go overboard like make saying things that you never said.
If she’s telling her friends then you may want to consider how far you want to take this with her. If you’re going to cut her off don’t be all day with it.
4. He's spending money on you
This is a big one. Unless she is a sugar daddy most men don’t want to blow money on a girl he’s just “fucking around with”. More than likely he is starting you see you guys as one. You know that “your money is my money” type of talk.
If you are in the mindset that you aren’t willing to do the same for her then you need to pass him along. Given you are not broke.
5. Other girls could do better for him
The next reason to cut your boyfriend off for good would be because other girls could do him better. (I know this is some SIMP shit to say it’s the article’s title). Anyways, he could do better with some chicks just like holding on to dudes because they don’t want to see him happy. That’s kind of messed up and a haters type of move.
If you don’t care then stop wasting time with him, don’t drag your feet, and let someone else in line take a hit.
6. She's not your type
If you’ve been seeing a guy for a while and you don’t feel like he’s your type then you may want to leave. Even if you don’t leave, the two of your situation needs to come to a close, don’t drag this on. Like I said in the article “you need a type”, stop wasting time with men who don’t seem up to standard.
Just let him go.
7. She's annoying
The final reason to get rid of your boyfriend would be that he is annoying. Why the hell are you even together if you find his presence annoying? Why hang out with annoying people period? You may be doing him a favor.
He could seem annoying because you really don’t like him. Unless you have a reason to keep him then toss him.
Stop wasting these men’s time, your time, and energy. You could be investing all of that into things more productive. However, unless they screwed you first then why screw with them at all? If they got you then why not get them back… it’s only fair, right? Don’t drag it on, move on.